Episode 105: “Why did you let that happen, God? “Forgiving God when life is not fair and just too much.

Life gets “life-y” sometimes – when there’s a  sudden pile of unfortunate things to handle that we didn’t expect. And sometimes we grapple with being disappointed in life because our way is blocked and difficult .

Even though we are good people who live the faith or pray a lot, it seems like God isn’t listening. What do we do when we feel all alone with our difficulties, and God doesn’t seem to care?

Mary says, “God does not help us avoid pain. God helps us know who we are through the pain, and helps us move into new joys. Human beings are amazing and resilient, with an unquenchable spark of God within us. If we’re unhappy with “God,” it’s because we have to grow beyond our former concept of God, and find the new understanding that brings us forward.”

Does this sound heavy? But …. NO!

Mary is at her slapstick best in this conversation as she shares her poignant and hilarious story of her fight with God about her frustration with lack of control in pregnancy and childbirth.

Enjoy some hefty philosophy delivered painlessly and with a flourish as Mary and Erin explore this most difficult of human dilemmas: how to forgive God.

Episode 104: “Give Yourself a Break – The Importance of Self Forgiveness”

Are you putting yourself down and saying bad things to yourself because you’re “falling short” of your dreams and potentials?

Cut it out!

Life is difficult, and we are all way too hard on ourselves – it may be the universal human challenge. Hey, you’re here, you’re you, and you’re all you’ve got. If you feel stuck, stressed, and unable to move forward because of some bad and uncompleted stories, it’s time for self forgiveness.

Mary and Erin both ‘fess up about self forgiveness issues, and explore the difference between productive remorse and toxic shame.

Enjoy hope in our discussion of how your spirit guides you easily back into ease and integrity.

Self forgiveness will help you to breathe deeper, quiet your critical mind, turn your face towards the sun and your feet onto the road towards the most elegant version of you.

Episode 103: “The Upside of Anger”

“Your anger is a doorway to your power, but it’s not a house that you can live in.”
The vibrant emotion of anger is a natural response when we have been insulted, belittled, or treated disrespectfully by another person. It does us a lot of good when we handle it in a healthy way, and it’s toxic and stressful for us when we keep it stuck inside as an ongoing resentment.

Mary and Erin get down and dirty with exactly how we move through anger when we’ve been wronged, and beyond it into new strength and clarity.

Enjoy this rare and energizing conversation about a problem that affects us all, and some great tips for how to be angry in a healthy and productive way.